Recently I took a friend to a hobby expo. He’s a great guy, but as the years have passed, dementia has slowly stolen away the friend I once knew.
He shares the stories of the past, a walk down memory lane, the same lane over and over again. Sometimes I’m tempted to be bothered by the repetition, but then I am reminded that the Bible says, “Love is patient.” (I Cor.13:4)
We used to have great conversations; he has so many experiences and travels to draw from. Now a comment can derail his mental train and he starts up a new story. It’s tempting to feel annoyed, but then I am reminded that the Bible says, “Love is kind.” (I Cor. 13:4)
My friend used to ask about my life. His understanding and advice were always helpful to me. But the slow twilight of dementia has taken that away. Sometimes I find myself wishing that we could talk about me (does that sound selfish?). Then the Bible reminds me, “Love seeks not its own.” (I Cor. 13:5)